How to Positively Train Humans Around Your Dog


Training the dog is sometimes the easiest part. But how do you train the humans to appropriately train and interact with your dog? Much like you train your dog. With positive reinforcement, management and redirection.

How to Positively Train Humans Around Your Dog

How to Positively Train Humans Around Your Dog
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If your relatives are offering the dog fatty human foods that are bad for them, offer them an alternative instead. I almost always have on me and give them to people who want to feed Mr. N unsuitable things. If they’re encouraging mouthy play, hand them a to tug with.


Do people encourage your dog to jump on them or encourage other undesirable behaviors? Redirect them. Kids and adults alike are perfectly happy to high five, fist bump or shake Mr. N’s paw instead of picking him up or petting him over the top of his head (which he really dislikes). Mr. N prefers that alternative greeting too. We were at a dog park once and someone offered him a hand to sniff and he solemnly high-fived instead.


People and dogs both love rewards and good behavior should be rewarded. If kids are polite about asking to pet Mr. N, my answer is almost always yes. They get treats to feed him with and they get to watch him show off his . If they just start screaming “puppy!” at the top of their lungs and come charging at us, no puppy. The puppy and I are very busy. Same goes for adults. If you try to pick him up or just start grabbing at his face, no petting time for you. But if you ask, Mr. N will be in a much happier state of mind and will crawl into your lap if you sit still for long enough.


Sometimes no matter what you do, people will not listen or follow instructions. In that case, you manage the situation. You either don’t let them have access to your dog, keep the dog /at home or stay glued to your dog’s side at all times while they’re there. Yelling at them might be satisfying but won’t fix the problem in the long run. An acquaintance refuses to heed my instructions regarding Mr. N’s care and he will do things like take away Mr. N’s and tease him with it. Mr. N doesn’t resource guard and I really don’t want him to start. So I watch Mr. N like a hawk at all times when that person is there or remove him from the situation entirely.

How do you positively train humans around your dog?

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7 Responses

  1. Jan K

    August 9, 2017 7:00 am

    I love this! The people probably don’t even realize they’re being “handled”. It’s a great approach to take to it!

  2. Beth

    August 10, 2017 7:22 am

    These are fantastic strategies to use to help make sure Mr. N is treated properly! I’ll never forget the disappointment I felt when some “friends” encouraged our well behaved big puppy to take food off the table. It was so hard on him to be tempted unfairly.

  3. Beth

    August 17, 2017 6:07 pm

    I love these ideas, especially the ones about the alternatives! Rewarding people is a little harder with Barley because I can’t let most kids pet her, so they have to settle for a “Thank you so much for asking” which isn’t quite as satisfying as actually getting to sink their hands into her fur 🙂

  4. 50shadesofsahara

    October 4, 2017 5:16 pm

    Human training is so important and I think so many people neglect doing it when they are training their dogs. I find myself trying to teach my sister how to walk my dog, so my pup isn’t pulling her, or I try to explain to my grandparents that yelling sit at her and tapping her on the bum isn’t going to get her to sit, but rather gaining her attention first, then telling her to sit and giving her the hand signal for sit and then being patient would have better results. Human training is much harder 😛


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